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Friday, October 14, 2016

My Earliest Childhood Memories | Then & NOW

THEN
from Book reviewer's Pen..

CHILDHOOD

"Childhood." When one hear the word childhood, one is filled with all the innocent mischievous things one had ever done. Every one have that distant memory which one never forgots. About your first day in school or that birthday party or the numerous beatings from ones parents.

Well what I remember most from my childhood is that I was quite a dumb child!
Yes it takes quite a courage to admit I was dumb. Not like all the computer brained kids God makes now a days.
Or was it only me!!!!

The fact that I was a dumb kid was that I flunked school twice and was just an average child throughout.

Apart from that there was once an incident where I remember I used to think kids in school were born in school uniforms!!

Once while going to school. I saw there were footprints of a person on the road which vanished near a manhole. I was dead scared that the man must have gone down the drain!!

Not to forget I didn't even knew the multiplication table of 10! Yes that was me. So stupid and dumb!!

Then came a time when we were taught about bees and flowers. How the pollen flies about with the help of bees and air and then fertilization occur. Now this is quite embarrassing to admit that I used to think that human fertilization too happens in the same way. Which was my thinking till I graduated!!!

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NOW....
from a Friend's view......

I feel this is a mutual feeling for every child. We were not awesome. as we made all the mistakes that we could and that we shouldn't.

I am not surprised, as failure and success is part of life and in childhood those were lessons which made us what we are. As since our "Book reviews - Then lady" is a very smart lady bacuase she now know her weakness. She, was not a talkative person, she still isn't. But the gap is filled by reading. She read and read. "The fastest reader I have met yet. GOSH.!!"

So, this is a very important read, for everyone who is afraid of failing. Or who feels they are under too much pressure. Do what best you can do, be honest to yourself.
Everyone has their destiny written. yes of-course the tendency of achieving Success after good education is much more than others. But name all the Entrepreneurs / Big shots / Singers / Celebrities, most of them are not that good academically but yet they do much better then anyone else.

Believe me if you put your focus to anything you can achieve it. Do what you are best at.
For the best example, the lady who just spoke that she is the dumbest one, is not author of our "BOOK REVIEW BLOG",
She is the one who corrects me on everything and is the most independent and self sufficient lady I have ever met.

" Believe in yourself. Just do what you are best at and Never Never Give Up."

You are here on earth for a special Task. You might not know it yet but eventually you will make a difference. But

"Nothing can be achieved by Quitting."

If you like something pursue it, chase your dream and achieve what you want to be. That's what you are here for. Protect your dream. "Its your happiness and your responsibility."

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Monday, August 15, 2016

OPTIMIST : It Happens for a reason (2014) by Preeti Shenoy

Novel                                   : It Happens for a reason (2014)
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Author                                 : Preeti Shenoy
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Pages    : 280

“Some things happen to you when you least expect it.”

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Preeti Shenoy

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Preeti Shenoy is among the highest selling authors in India and has been featured on the Forbes India long list of the most influential celebrities.
India Today has named her as being unique for being the only woman in the best-selling league.

More Books from Author
34 Bubblegums and Candies (2008) | Life Is What You Make It (2011) | Tea for Two and a Piece of Cake | The Secret Wish List (2012) | The One You Cannot Have (2013) | "It Happens For A Reason" (2014) | "Why We Love The Way We Do" (2015)

It Happens for a reason (2014) by Preeti Shenoy

“No matter how much you think about certain things, nothing prepares you for the for the shock of actually facing it, or going through it.”

Many a times we come across some mishaps or misfortune in our life which we haven't accounted for or which is so sudden that our life takes a complete different turn. We are not prepared for the turns of events which comes our way. In such a situation we go through so many emotions, we need to make decisions equivalent of life and dead. We understand the value of relationships. We know who all are our real friends and family. Some of us get depressed at why we are in such a situation for no fault of ours. But we fail to realise that whatever happens " Happens for a Reason".

“Nothing had changed. Some people never really leave. They remain in your heart.”

In this book Preeti Shenoy have through Vipasha (Vee) life shown us exactly this.
How as a teenager Vee unexpectedly became a mother at the height of her modelling career and have to drop out of her college and job to raise her child.
Twists and turns her life goes through the span of sixteen years after that. The reaction of her friends and family. And all the elements which we might face as in reality. While we read it its like we are seeing it happen in front of us. We can feel connected to Vee. The happy ending makes us all feel that actually everything have a time. Things happen when they are meant to happen and that everything indeed "Happens For a Reason".

“No matter how much you tried to make something happen, you will not be able to until the time is right. She used to say that most problems get magnified because we over- think them, creating more problems in the process, and sometimes things take their own course. All we can do is to let it be.”

"It Happens For A Reason."

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Tuesday, August 2, 2016

LOVE & LIFE : OUR IMPOSSIBLE LOVE by Durjoy Datta

LOVE & LIFE The Way The Should Be : OUR IMPOSSIBLE LOVE by Durjoy Datta

Life teaches us what 'love' truly is
And love gives definition to 'life'

Novel                      OUR IMPOSSIBLE LOVE
Author Durjoy Dutta

Number of Pages    288 Pages
Publication Year      2016
Language                English

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Story of a Girl and her journey of self-discovery as a woman and love.

Our Impossible Love by Durjoy DuttaDurjoy Dutta is a young Indian author who have become one of the bestseller in a short span of time. His writing style, language and stories are such which instantly attracts young audiences. His novels not only tells a story but also sets an example which is a guidance for young generations.

When I looked at the title it was like its just any other love stories where religion or social thing will be the barrier.Which was true in a way it had a relationship between a teacher and his student.

So I started reading it (which took just a few hours to finish), its almost like out of habit that I start comparing myself with the characters of the book with myself or people around me .

So when it first started with Aisha Paul getting panicked with the onset of attaining puberty I instantly start thinking of the time I got it and was striking out all the similarities and differences. Wishing I too had a mother as loving like her. My mother is also a darling but bit Orthodox type.

And again so for the next character who came up Danish Roy. His one was also similar to mine. Being an average student all through.Having a more successful sibling. Having expectations from parents. Were all too common things which any average student can connect with.

The characters were all ordinary people whom all can connect with at some point or other point of their life. As oneself or someone around us.
The language is also not as Shakespeare which would require a degree in Literature.
It was more which we Indians can connect with.

As the story starts progressing some disturbing thoughts ought to creep up in mind. Like do it need to be written?
Okay I might sound old school types but do we need to use the F words? Or teenage sex or alcohol ?
Few questions crop up in my mind-
Are these things really happening in schools nowadays?
Have the teenagers evolved so much that such things are going on?
Have these always been going on and I was the only one who was left out of these while I was in school?
At second thought it don't look that unbelievable also
I mean the kids now have access to mobiles and internet and are more open towards discussions like this.

Few issues like rape by a known person and the way it was tackled deserves kudos.

Gays - which are hot issues nowadays were taken coolly by the family of the guy.

Then there were best friends who are there in bad times.

and finally the relationship between a student and a teacher who falls in love with each other reminds me of an incident in my school. One of my classmates had eloped with our new English teacher.

Our impossible love shows how love can happen anywhere between anyone.
Just like Aisha and Danish, who though very much different had found something common.

It shows how Danish who have always been a average person, who have been struggling to be someone tries and bring about a change in Aisha's life when she was undergoing hormonal changes.

Though overall the book is a good one and can be good for teenagers going through hormonal changes or for parents of such children. Young people who are discovering themselves.
I found some parts to be offensive which can misguide teenagers going through this phase.
Like alcohol in parties meant for school kids , use of abusive words. Some of us may argue and say that teenagers nowadays are not new to any of these. But what about kinds who is still ignorant of such acts? Are we not ripping them of there ignorance? Are we not overworking there growing up system to make them believe that having girlfriend and boyfriend in schools are mandatory, same goes for smoking and drinking? and for those who don't follow these are being bullied till they give in.

I appreciate our Indian writers who with books like this are drawing young minds towards reading but at the same time it feels a bit apprehensive that we should use the xxx things.

This is more like becoming a thing of present where good classic movies are being replaced and judged by items songs and short dresses.

And to end it with there is I M possible even in impossible. Which stands true for any situations we find ourselves in. Its just the way we want to see it.

The Three Things I Cannot Change " The PAST" The TRUTH" & "YOU".

Anne Lamott

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Some of the Well known writing from Author "Durjoy Dutta" are "Of Course I Love You!", "Now That You're Rich!", "She Broke Up", "I Didn't!, Ohh Yes", "I Am Single!", "You Were My Crush", "If It's Not Forever", "Till the Last Breath", "Someone Like You", "Hold My Hand", "When Only Love Remains", "World's Best Boyfriend" etc.

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